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Buy Me a House and Give Me a Ring, I Deserve Everything
There is his idea that black women do not deserve love. That we have to settle for men who think…
Men Do Not Know How to Flirt With Women
99.982736482827% of men do not know how to flirt with women. I made it specific to women because I stick…
What To Do When a Crush Turns Into a One Night Stand
One-night stands. A sexual experience that can either be extremely freeing or very insulting depending on how it goes. I…
My Abusive Relationship Gave Me Nightmares
He gave me nightmares. Not at first but as the relationship dragged on and on and started going to shit,…
Loving a Jealous Man: The Hairy Green Beast
How do you define nightmare? I define it as being stuck in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you,…
Hyper-Masculinity is Ruining the Men in America
The first time I was confronted by a guy who wasn't hyper-masculine or insecure about his identity as a man…
Dating In the Dark: Don’t Take Him Home To Mama
Sometimes we are ashamed of the men we date. It could be because he's nothing like your papa, or because…
The 1 Year Anniversary of Breakup Tragedy
Since Facebook was kind enough to remind me that I got my heart ripped out one year ago today, I…
Life Is Hard: Should You Make It Easier With a Sugar Daddy?
As with anything else, there are pros and cons to this situation too. So why say yes to being a…
When Sex is the Best Part of the Relationship
This is not necessarily a bad thing... unless you're trying to make it to your one year anniversary. In this case,…
I Exposed My Abuser on the Internet and I Am Proud of Myself
Victims need validation. I know because I was a victim. I am a victim. I have been victimized. This is very much a state…
Ash Leon aka Ashely Markell Santinac is a Liar, Scammer, and All Around Fuckboy
Ashely Markell Santinac. Code name: abusive, manipulative, scammer trash This nigga gives "fuckboy" a new and enhanced meaning. I know…
Maybe He Doesn’t Hit You, But He Still Abuses You
Maybe he doesn't hit you....but he threatens to. He breaks things. Storms around ripping legs from seats, turning vases and…
What are you really fighting about? Learn to Communicate in Your Relationship
Couples therapy. Probably the most dreaded set of words after “you’re fired”, but unlike unemployment, couples therapy can actually be…
